"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Okay even though I failed the bootcamp twice in 2 weeks lmao I'm not a complete failure. I have been talking to girls over the summer, some not lots. And learning to just walk away when bullsh!t presents itself. I am officially less AFC than I was last year haha.

The Date:

Went bowling with a girl I'd say was about a 7-8. I'm a shy guy but it was easier since she was shy too. Had her laughing and smiling almost the whole night (thank god). She loosened up once I started makin jokes. Got some good kino in too. At first I didn't do any at all, then I thought about SoSuave and how I wanted to escape my AFC ways. I hesitated to touch her at first, then I thought "Fvck it! Man up!". I took her hand and we went to what I wanted to do. Had her on my lap takin pics, stuff like that. I now know that arcade games make for extremely easy kino. And then I suggested pool which she never played before. I thought to myself this couldn't get any easier (the kino). At the end I was close to getting the kiss but her mom showed up (Dammit :mad: ). My fault though since I hesitated to do it earlier.

So overall it went well, I plan to keep her around for whenever she comes home from college, while I get my practice in with the girls in high school. I wanna keep her cause she's a quality chick. Not some dumb broad I just wanna fvck. Things are goin good right now :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good to see that you're improving!

As for keeping her around, theres nothing wrong with that, but just dont make her your only hope of getting ass and dont become too needy/clingy. Keep in mind though that she is in college, so please, please do not try to get into a relationship with her (because I know you mentioned that she wasnt just some dumb broad you wanted to fvck). With all the parties and crazy sh*t going on in college, going out with a girl whos in college is not such a great idea.
 
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Haha yea, I'm well aware of that. My brother even talked to me about that lol. So I'm not trying to get too close to her. Just keepin her there for her visits home.
 
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Chrom3y said:
Haha yea, I'm well aware of that. My brother even talked to me about that lol. So I'm not trying to get too close to her. Just keepin her there for her visits home.
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I know you said you didnt want her to just be some dumb broad to just fvck, but saying this makes it seem exactly like just a booty call for when she comes home you can just fvck her.

Just dont get emotionally attached.
 
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