"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First date with girl from highschool I met again after 2 years

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So I just moved back into my old town after modeling for a year and a half and I went to my old highschool's homecoming football game. Well, I saw this girl there that I graduated with and started talking to her. She used to have a pretty big crush on me in high school and I never acted on it because I always had other girls in my pocket.

Well, in high school she never had a boyfriend, but since then she's actually had a few. Long story short, after talking to her and exchanging numbers, I asked her out to see a movie tomorrow and she accepted. I know, movie date not a good idea for a first date, but I've known this chick for a long time.

Question is....Should I make the first move on her? Be the one to grab her hand, or wait to make a move if and when I get her back to my place? My friends who know her better than me have warned me to let her make the first move, but that just goes against everything I know....any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok guys, the date is happening in like an hour...won't be able to get her back to my place tonight because it will be too late for her....so what should I do at the movie? This is a tough one like I said earlier because other people told me I should let her make the first move but I'm almost positive she's way too shy to.
 
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Look at her a few times during the movie. If she looks at you and holds eye contact, go for the kiss.
 
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