"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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First date with girl from highschool I met again after 2 years

Viper423

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So I just moved back into my old town after modeling for a year and a half and I went to my old highschool's homecoming football game. Well, I saw this girl there that I graduated with and started talking to her. She used to have a pretty big crush on me in high school and I never acted on it because I always had other girls in my pocket.

Well, in high school she never had a boyfriend, but since then she's actually had a few. Long story short, after talking to her and exchanging numbers, I asked her out to see a movie tomorrow and she accepted. I know, movie date not a good idea for a first date, but I've known this chick for a long time.

Question is....Should I make the first move on her? Be the one to grab her hand, or wait to make a move if and when I get her back to my place? My friends who know her better than me have warned me to let her make the first move, but that just goes against everything I know....any suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ok guys, the date is happening in like an hour...won't be able to get her back to my place tonight because it will be too late for her....so what should I do at the movie? This is a tough one like I said earlier because other people told me I should let her make the first move but I'm almost positive she's way too shy to.
 

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Look at her a few times during the movie. If she looks at you and holds eye contact, go for the kiss.
 
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