"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First date with girl from highschool I met again after 2 years

Viper423

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So I just moved back into my old town after modeling for a year and a half and I went to my old highschool's homecoming football game. Well, I saw this girl there that I graduated with and started talking to her. She used to have a pretty big crush on me in high school and I never acted on it because I always had other girls in my pocket.

Well, in high school she never had a boyfriend, but since then she's actually had a few. Long story short, after talking to her and exchanging numbers, I asked her out to see a movie tomorrow and she accepted. I know, movie date not a good idea for a first date, but I've known this chick for a long time.

Question is....Should I make the first move on her? Be the one to grab her hand, or wait to make a move if and when I get her back to my place? My friends who know her better than me have warned me to let her make the first move, but that just goes against everything I know....any suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ok guys, the date is happening in like an hour...won't be able to get her back to my place tonight because it will be too late for her....so what should I do at the movie? This is a tough one like I said earlier because other people told me I should let her make the first move but I'm almost positive she's way too shy to.
 

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Look at her a few times during the movie. If she looks at you and holds eye contact, go for the kiss.
 
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