"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First date success...when should I call her back?

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mecca411

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Took this girl out to a comedy club last Saturday night. We had a blast and laughed our asses off. Afterwards we went club hoppig for a bit and did some dancing. Later on we went to the grounds where they were holding the local winterlude festival. It was closed but we still went to check out the ice sculptures and goof around a bit. Ended the night at a coffee shop where we had a decent chat. Dropped her off at her place at 5am, but ended it with just a nice hug and a kiss on the cheek(Just wanted to keep it simple, probably could've gone for more).

I had a blast with her but I'm definitely not crazy into her. Actually not really sure what I want from her. Anyway, that was on Saturday and it's now Tuesday night. When should I call her again? She'll be out of town this weekend so we can't get together. What should be my next move?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Read DocLove and what he says about a kiss on the cheek.....


Always, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go for the kiss ON HER LIPS. She wont kiss your lips you are TOAST.... you dont know it yet, but odds are very, very good that youve been LJBF'ed
 
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My man this is a sad question.

"You're not sure what you want with her?"

Nobody can tell you what to do if you don't know what you want yourself.

If you had a great time with her whats the problem? If you're not into her then why bother calling? Find someone else who gets you going.

Call her whenever you feel like it.

Peace
 
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You should definitely figure out what you want with her before you waste more time on then you already have. A lot of chicks have a mindset that if you don't kiss..and I'm talking about on the lips.. during or right at the end of a first date (especially if it's going or went well), they will think you're not interested in doing anything more with them. You really should have gotten the "first kiss anxiety" bull**** out of the way, just for your own sake. You devoted your time to her for x amount of hours...which could have been spent elsewhere and with someone else, so you should get something for that from her...yet you hesistated. I mean if she stayed with you till 5 am then I seriously doubt you would have been turned down for a first kiss. Seems like a waste to me. Once she becomes comfortable enough to kiss you, she'll be comfortable enough to make out with you, and you can figure out the rest. If you don't want sex with this girl then just quit while you're still ahead and move on.
 
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