First Date Report

[member160292]

Getting back in the groove of dating again, mainly using OLD and Meetup.

Sent a few messages on Bumble and set up a date 2 days later. Light dinner and a drinks at 2 more venues

INTERESTED CHICKS WILL FOLLOW WITH WHATEVER YOU SUGGEST

Push the envelope on the first date, keep on suggesting places and see if she follows. Any sign of indecision on her part is when you cut bait.

Kiss closed and she hinted what we would do next.

In contrast, I had a ‘date’ last weekend when I was still in an early relationship. I ended the date right after dinner even though she was hoping for more

Guess what?

Sorry, I didn’t feel the chemistry on our date

Women hate being rejected and will despise you for it.

Tangent
I technically dismissed my recent short term relationship after we had a disagreement on how our relationship will work by saying she should go

GUESS WHAT?

She comes over the next day to my place to say she loves me, but it won’t work due to my “conflict resolution”

Ha, I just agreed with her the whole time and showed her the door while saying maybe 3 words during that conversation.

Women hate being rejected
On the first date, make her reject you

 

[BillyPilgrim]

With the 3-Date-Kate type of woman, if you do a fancy first date she may expect you to take her on bigger and better dates afterwards.

Good job with the old plate lol

 

[The Diver]

Light dinner and a drinks at 2 more venues

Why dinner for a first date, assuming you will pay for it, even before you know if you like the girl?

First date, drink or coffee. if the girl shows high interest, the third date is cooking together at your place. ( if you're not after first date secs)

 

[member160292]

Why dinner for a first date, assuming you will pay for it, even before you know if you like the girl?

First date, drink or coffee. if the girl shows high interest, the third date is cooking together at your place. ( if you're not after first date secs)

Always split checks, I pay the tip

To add, this isn’t a typical diner place. It’s a different cuisine that most chicks have never been to. I always pay the tip in cash and they know I’m bringing different women every time I’m there.

 

[member160292]

With the 3-Date-Kate type of woman, if you do a fancy first date she may expect you to take her on bigger and better dates afterwards.

Good job with the old plate lol

Nah, the first date will set the tone. First impression is key to keeping that interest. Second date is meet at my place and we go somewhere. As long as you get the interest going on the first date, the rest of the dates you choose, she will follow. First impressions will get you a lot of leeway