“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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First Date Report: I don't know why I'm doing this sh!t anymore

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BeDJ

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So you got Kelly Brook's and Mila Kunis's numbers? Well done.
http://imgur.com/aCvtvN5

T'was real life 10s.....now stop drilling my thread phaaggggot!

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Social_Leper said:
So you got Kelly Brook's and Micaela Schäfer's numbers? Well done.

Edit: Hotter girls.
I'd rather bang that chick I posted than Micaela Shafer. Eye of the beholder.

But WTF is this???
http://imgur.com/de0KtQ2
 
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BeDJ

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Solid 8. Carry on.
And your rating for this?

http://imgur.com/7s4mkRh

Zarky said:
I think one of the cues of confident people is the fact that they seem bored in whatever situation they feel confident. The essence of "coolness" is boredom, IMHO. The more bored I feel when I'm out on a date, the better the date usually goes for some reason.
This is exactly how I treat a girl on a first date. Forget trying to build a 'connection' with her. Forget common interest. Forget making sure she has a good time. The more nonchalant and 'wondering eyes' you are, the more she is going to probe you for details, making her keep the conversation going. This is one of the best ways to raise her interest. Her hamster is spinning wondering if you are actually having a good time or not. I get the 'you're so different, you seem mysterious, etc.' lines a lot. Most of the time when they do, we go on a second date.

WOW! This guy knows everything about me, but I know nothing about him. WTF! Why won't he tell me about himself??? OMGGG
 

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To be honest I was just wrote down the first "hot girls" I could think of who are meant to be considered hot by men everywhere. In light of this fact I'll edit my OP with a more appropriate lady.

Point still stands. Unless you're banging super models you aren't dealing with HB10s.
But yeah, get your point, actually banging Milan Kunis would be directly proportional to banging a 10. Quite a bit of social proof with her as well....which would help with the 10's.

And yes, eye of the beholder.

Back to topic.
 

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Zarky said:
You could say that. It's more like.. I'm bored with the whole dating routine. Last year I had a goal which was "40 by 40"... trying to bang 40 chicks by the time I was 40. Several months ago I completed that task and now I need to find another goal to shoot for. The next natural goal, "75 by 50" is so far away that it's not really on my radar yet.

When you think about it, once you're past your mid-30s and you've banged more than a couple of dozen women and had everything from ONSs to multi-year relationships, you've kind of seen it all.

But like I said, that's ok with me. I think boredom with a thing is a good state to be in. I don't have a problem with it. It means you know what you're doing, you've been there before

I think one of the cues of confident people is the fact that they seem bored in whatever situation they feel confident. The essence of "coolness" is boredom, IMHO. The more bored I feel when I'm out on a date, the better the date usually goes for some reason.
You are confusing 'boredom' with nonchalance. Someone who is confident in a particular situation will lack anxiety, but that doesn't mean that he is bored. The fact that you are bored wit banging POF landwhales is not surprising. Why not work on upping your game and trying to get chicks that are actually attractive?
 

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Solid 8. Carry on.
Shes an 8??? Really? Id say shes a 7 on her best day but really just a 6 to me. Shes an average looking chick to me.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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