"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bob2007

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So this chick lives 1 hr + away from me, we're gonna go to this fancy downtown restaurant for tepanyaki, never had it before. I'm returning to Toronto from NY for the weekend. Previous story. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141519

23 years old. First date for me haha. Average to good looking, intelligent, athletic, talkative, well educated. Wow. Hope this finallly works out.

Do you guys think I should pick her up? Most people seem to think so, but they are not sosuave people and she lives soo far away!

Our convo:

Free Sat?
Her: Ya I am , during the day. ( me thinking why only the day)
How bout we go to Yamato this place downtown , Japanese restaurant for tepanyaki
Her: Is it far? ( I'm ****en traveling 500km back to Toronto *****!)
It's near a subway
Her: Is it expensive? Cause I"m poor haha.
It's alright I got it.
Ok I'll give you a call sometime Friday let u know where it is specifically.

Some good some bad, I'm probably overanalyzing. Should I make the effort to go pick her up? Also I want to take her to the beach after, where my friends'll play volleyball and theres a few good romantic spots. Seems like a lotta trouble to bring extra clothese and such.

Blazer, jeans, white shirt, sunglasses, dress shoes... too much for lunch, rich area?
 

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WOW BRO!! u said it!! ur over analyzing the situation WAY too much

You are pursuing this chica TOO much.. lighten it up a lil..

oh and dont pick her up.. either tell her to meet you there.. or she can come to ur place and u'll leave from there.

good luck bro.. u sound stiff.. loosen up and u'll do fine
 
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