Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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First Date question

bob2007

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So this chick lives 1 hr + away from me, we're gonna go to this fancy downtown restaurant for tepanyaki, never had it before. I'm returning to Toronto from NY for the weekend. Previous story. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141519

23 years old. First date for me haha. Average to good looking, intelligent, athletic, talkative, well educated. Wow. Hope this finallly works out.

Do you guys think I should pick her up? Most people seem to think so, but they are not sosuave people and she lives soo far away!

Our convo:

Free Sat?
Her: Ya I am , during the day. ( me thinking why only the day)
How bout we go to Yamato this place downtown , Japanese restaurant for tepanyaki
Her: Is it far? ( I'm ****en traveling 500km back to Toronto *****!)
It's near a subway
Her: Is it expensive? Cause I"m poor haha.
It's alright I got it.
Ok I'll give you a call sometime Friday let u know where it is specifically.

Some good some bad, I'm probably overanalyzing. Should I make the effort to go pick her up? Also I want to take her to the beach after, where my friends'll play volleyball and theres a few good romantic spots. Seems like a lotta trouble to bring extra clothese and such.

Blazer, jeans, white shirt, sunglasses, dress shoes... too much for lunch, rich area?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Brians_600rr

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WOW BRO!! u said it!! ur over analyzing the situation WAY too much

You are pursuing this chica TOO much.. lighten it up a lil..

oh and dont pick her up.. either tell her to meet you there.. or she can come to ur place and u'll leave from there.

good luck bro.. u sound stiff.. loosen up and u'll do fine
 
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