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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

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First Date question

bob2007

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So this chick lives 1 hr + away from me, we're gonna go to this fancy downtown restaurant for tepanyaki, never had it before. I'm returning to Toronto from NY for the weekend. Previous story. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141519

23 years old. First date for me haha. Average to good looking, intelligent, athletic, talkative, well educated. Wow. Hope this finallly works out.

Do you guys think I should pick her up? Most people seem to think so, but they are not sosuave people and she lives soo far away!

Our convo:

Free Sat?
Her: Ya I am , during the day. ( me thinking why only the day)
How bout we go to Yamato this place downtown , Japanese restaurant for tepanyaki
Her: Is it far? ( I'm ****en traveling 500km back to Toronto *****!)
It's near a subway
Her: Is it expensive? Cause I"m poor haha.
It's alright I got it.
Ok I'll give you a call sometime Friday let u know where it is specifically.

Some good some bad, I'm probably overanalyzing. Should I make the effort to go pick her up? Also I want to take her to the beach after, where my friends'll play volleyball and theres a few good romantic spots. Seems like a lotta trouble to bring extra clothese and such.

Blazer, jeans, white shirt, sunglasses, dress shoes... too much for lunch, rich area?
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Brians_600rr

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WOW BRO!! u said it!! ur over analyzing the situation WAY too much

You are pursuing this chica TOO much.. lighten it up a lil..

oh and dont pick her up.. either tell her to meet you there.. or she can come to ur place and u'll leave from there.

good luck bro.. u sound stiff.. loosen up and u'll do fine
 
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