"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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First date pub crawl good or bad idea?

Willard

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A hottie on Tinder messaged me yesterday, I got her number, I'm going to text her tomorrow to set up a date, there is a pub crawl on Friday that has a trolley that goes to ten different bars for $35 and you get a free drink at every bar. I went last year with a girl I was seeing and had a blast. Would inviting the girl be too much for a first date or would it be cool?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Peña

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Sounds like some really good fun Willard. But I would take a woman you already know and like to the pub crawl. It will make it more fun. Some woman you don't even really know online might be a lame and boring time with her if she isn't fun. Call me cheap, but it would be better just to buy a couple of drinks and bang her off Tinder. $35 is too much for the online dates if you come away with nothing. $35 is too much if you do get laid out of it. When you can get a discount why not eh? Have fun at the pub crawl.
 

Willard

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Thanks, I'll just go with a friend, I'll just take her for a couple of drinks.
 
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