A hottie on Tinder messaged me yesterday, I got her number, I'm going to text her tomorrow to set up a date, there is a pub crawl on Friday that has a trolley that goes to ten different bars for $35 and you get a free drink at every bar. I went last year with a girl I was seeing and had a blast. Would inviting the girl be too much for a first date or would it be cool?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
First date pub crawl good or bad idea?
- Thread starter Willard
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