A hottie on Tinder messaged me yesterday, I got her number, I'm going to text her tomorrow to set up a date, there is a pub crawl on Friday that has a trolley that goes to ten different bars for $35 and you get a free drink at every bar. I went last year with a girl I was seeing and had a blast. Would inviting the girl be too much for a first date or would it be cool?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
First date pub crawl good or bad idea?
- Thread starter Willard
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