A hottie on Tinder messaged me yesterday, I got her number, I'm going to text her tomorrow to set up a date, there is a pub crawl on Friday that has a trolley that goes to ten different bars for $35 and you get a free drink at every bar. I went last year with a girl I was seeing and had a blast. Would inviting the girl be too much for a first date or would it be cool?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
First date pub crawl good or bad idea?
- Thread starter Willard
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