old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
So Ive started chatting to girls on FB, yes before the knives come out, just letting you know that I'm only doing this to how do u say? keep the blade sharp, practice makes perfect. Now i've gotten a few numbers her and a few dates but this one girl I went out for coffee really got me thinking.
Met up with her at coffee, cute girl smart, intelligent had a good time laughing, poking fun bit of teasing and a hi 5 whenever she did something i approved of. So we left I paid for coffees, even though she tried to pay herself, but i insisted i invited her out, i should pay. I walk her to her class and thats when she said something that unnerved me.
She talked bout her ex and how close they were, how there relationship lasted 3.5 years and that he was ignoring her to focus on his studies. Now I didnt take too much notice to it, rather i made abit of small talk and changed the subject.
My immediate feeling was she brought this up for 2 reasons.
1. She wanted to let me know that she still had feelings for her ex and wanted me to know that me and her couldnt go further. OR
2. She is attracted to me, and wanted to test me with the ex to see how i would react.
My thought that if theory 2 wasnt the case y wouldnt she bring it up earlier when we were talking or on fb at all. So im guessing she likes me, I did ask her to see her again and she said shed like that. Probably wait a week since im sick and shes busy with other matters.
Just wanted to get an opinion from you guys on where u rekon she stands and any advice, would be appreciated.
Met up with her at coffee, cute girl smart, intelligent had a good time laughing, poking fun bit of teasing and a hi 5 whenever she did something i approved of. So we left I paid for coffees, even though she tried to pay herself, but i insisted i invited her out, i should pay. I walk her to her class and thats when she said something that unnerved me.
She talked bout her ex and how close they were, how there relationship lasted 3.5 years and that he was ignoring her to focus on his studies. Now I didnt take too much notice to it, rather i made abit of small talk and changed the subject.
My immediate feeling was she brought this up for 2 reasons.
1. She wanted to let me know that she still had feelings for her ex and wanted me to know that me and her couldnt go further. OR
2. She is attracted to me, and wanted to test me with the ex to see how i would react.
My thought that if theory 2 wasnt the case y wouldnt she bring it up earlier when we were talking or on fb at all. So im guessing she likes me, I did ask her to see her again and she said shed like that. Probably wait a week since im sick and shes busy with other matters.
Just wanted to get an opinion from you guys on where u rekon she stands and any advice, would be appreciated.
