"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First Date in a long time..but might of stuffed at the the end

pyros

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just as a side note...:

do you think she's overthinking the date as much as you? nope, probably she's not even thinking about it at all while you're posting over and over.

Think about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wishyo

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hell yea they do overthink. instead of posting they are talking to their girl-friends about it
 

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Hmm said:
Dont worry I was pretty much spot on during the date before the kiss and perfect before and after the date..havent been needy at all.

Just been my myself:)
Why are you so convinced it was a bad kiss anyway? What do you think made it so bad?
 

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It was very short (my choice) and I didnt feel the rythm and I was too soft..and when she held my hand I just didnt really hold her. I gave her a quick kiss after the first poor kiss... and then I said Have a good night and I left..

Anyway doesnt matter I'm sure Ill see her again, just need to figure out how to do better next time.

Partizan said:
Why are you so convinced it was a bad kiss anyway? What do you think made it so bad?
 
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