"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
First Date in a long time..but might of stuffed at the the end
- Thread starter Hmm
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why are you so convinced it was a bad kiss anyway? What do you think made it so bad?Hmm said:Dont worry I was pretty much spot on during the date before the kiss and perfect before and after the date..havent been needy at all.
Just been my myself
Hmm
Don Juan
Anyway doesnt matter I'm sure Ill see her again, just need to figure out how to do better next time.
Partizan said: