"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don Juan
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Typically throughout highschool I've been using the same formula , we go to a high end coffee shop by my place , end up walking down town since I live by then work my way from there. Night time , I usually stick to drinks but 70% of girls turn down that offer.

My reason for this is because , on the coffee shop date ..I spend minimum incase she turns out to be a sloppy or her interest is low.
But now I'm getting old and I'm starting to think the coffee shop game has run its course.
Last week I had a sushi date with this girl I met at work and it was really nice since we both liked it so much.
Anymore ideas from you guys , and plase don't bother responding if you spend $100 plus on the first date.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MAYALL

Don Juan
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Drinks at a classy bar always works best. Who the heck would spend $100 on a first date?
 

Fireballs

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Got a dog? Invite her along when you take your dog to the park/beach.

Don't have a dog? Action dates! Doesn't matter what you do as long as it's fun. Action dates give you a great opportunity to use kino and a great opportunity to playfully tease her. End the date at the highest point, this can be hard as they will usually try and make you stay but don't fall in the trap where you hang around until you start running out of things to say and you can tell she is getting bored. End it on the high and she will be craving to see you again.
 
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