"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don Juan
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Typically throughout highschool I've been using the same formula , we go to a high end coffee shop by my place , end up walking down town since I live by then work my way from there. Night time , I usually stick to drinks but 70% of girls turn down that offer.

My reason for this is because , on the coffee shop date ..I spend minimum incase she turns out to be a sloppy or her interest is low.
But now I'm getting old and I'm starting to think the coffee shop game has run its course.
Last week I had a sushi date with this girl I met at work and it was really nice since we both liked it so much.
Anymore ideas from you guys , and plase don't bother responding if you spend $100 plus on the first date.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

MAYALL

Don Juan
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Drinks at a classy bar always works best. Who the heck would spend $100 on a first date?
 

Fireballs

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Got a dog? Invite her along when you take your dog to the park/beach.

Don't have a dog? Action dates! Doesn't matter what you do as long as it's fun. Action dates give you a great opportunity to use kino and a great opportunity to playfully tease her. End the date at the highest point, this can be hard as they will usually try and make you stay but don't fall in the trap where you hang around until you start running out of things to say and you can tell she is getting bored. End it on the high and she will be craving to see you again.
 
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