"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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first date ideas/tips?

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I asked this girl I recently started talking to if she wanted to meet up sometime next week and she agreed. I've been so caught up with work and other stuff lately that I haven't really had time for dating. What are some good first date ideas? Anything in particular I should or shouldn't do? Any advice is appreciated
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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duke104 said:
I asked this girl I recently started talking to if she wanted to meet up sometime next week and she agreed. I've been so caught up with work and other stuff lately that I haven't really had time for dating. What are some good first date ideas? Anything in particular I should or shouldn't do? Any advice is appreciated
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Drinks and good conversation. Seeing how this is your first date, she hasn't earned some great 7-course night. So keep it simple.

Remember that you're evaluating her as much as she's evaluating you....So don't fall into that "I have to impress her with a unique date idea" trap.
 
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