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first date ideas/tips?

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I asked this girl I recently started talking to if she wanted to meet up sometime next week and she agreed. I've been so caught up with work and other stuff lately that I haven't really had time for dating. What are some good first date ideas? Anything in particular I should or shouldn't do? Any advice is appreciated
 

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duke104 said:
I asked this girl I recently started talking to if she wanted to meet up sometime next week and she agreed. I've been so caught up with work and other stuff lately that I haven't really had time for dating. What are some good first date ideas? Anything in particular I should or shouldn't do? Any advice is appreciated
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Drinks and good conversation. Seeing how this is your first date, she hasn't earned some great 7-course night. So keep it simple.

Remember that you're evaluating her as much as she's evaluating you....So don't fall into that "I have to impress her with a unique date idea" trap.
 
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