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First Date: Ice Skating, Ice Cream

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i'm going out on a first date with a girl this weekend. i wanted to do something fun, so i chose ice skating. afterwards, i was going to grab some ice cream.

problem is that the ice skating rink and ice cream place have different times of operation and i would only be able to get ice cream with her if we go before we go ice skating...

is it dumb to get ice cream before the action part of the date? i mean, i just don't want her to get bored right off the bat...

i'm probably over-analyzing this too much, but what would you guys do?
 

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i don't think ice cream after skating in 0 degree weather is what the doctor ordered, just the ice skates, videocamera, and anal nitrate should be enough
 

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Dude fvck ice cream. Go ice skating THEN go for hot chocolate. Or offer to go back to your house for a nice cup of hot cocoa. Yo that chicks pantiez be drenched with an offer like that.... she simply would not refuse.
 

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yeah, seems kinda redundant or ironic.. whatever. go for hot chocolate afterwards i guess.
 

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i thought about ice skating as a date..
how does it work if the girl can't skate?
(i can, due to alot of rollerblading when i was younger.)
 

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Originally posted by quest
i thought about ice skating as a date..
how does it work if the girl can't skate?
(i can, due to alot of rollerblading when i was younger.)
Then you can offer to teach her and by doing so get crapload of kino. Works really great.

I would go with Julian's idea.
 

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i thought about ice skating as a date.. how does it work if the girl can't skate?
It's good if she can't skate :D Coz what you do is you "teach" her. Hold their hands and skate in backward infront of them, or say "Here I'll hold your waist so you don't fall" ;)
 
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