"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

First Date: Ice Skating, Ice Cream

golf299

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2002
Messages
417
Reaction score
1
Location
STL
i'm going out on a first date with a girl this weekend. i wanted to do something fun, so i chose ice skating. afterwards, i was going to grab some ice cream.

problem is that the ice skating rink and ice cream place have different times of operation and i would only be able to get ice cream with her if we go before we go ice skating...

is it dumb to get ice cream before the action part of the date? i mean, i just don't want her to get bored right off the bat...

i'm probably over-analyzing this too much, but what would you guys do?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

thefonz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 14, 2004
Messages
1,143
Reaction score
13
Age
44
Location
Pittsburgh
i don't think ice cream after skating in 0 degree weather is what the doctor ordered, just the ice skates, videocamera, and anal nitrate should be enough
 

Julian

Banned
Joined
Jul 30, 2003
Messages
4,754
Reaction score
1,216
Dude fvck ice cream. Go ice skating THEN go for hot chocolate. Or offer to go back to your house for a nice cup of hot cocoa. Yo that chicks pantiez be drenched with an offer like that.... she simply would not refuse.
 

DeathDealer

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 3, 2004
Messages
640
Reaction score
0
yeah, seems kinda redundant or ironic.. whatever. go for hot chocolate afterwards i guess.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

quest

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2003
Messages
1,176
Reaction score
0
i thought about ice skating as a date..
how does it work if the girl can't skate?
(i can, due to alot of rollerblading when i was younger.)
 

Kidd

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2004
Messages
331
Reaction score
2
Originally posted by quest
i thought about ice skating as a date..
how does it work if the girl can't skate?
(i can, due to alot of rollerblading when i was younger.)
Then you can offer to teach her and by doing so get crapload of kino. Works really great.

I would go with Julian's idea.
 

BigWillyStyle

Banned
Joined
May 22, 2004
Messages
300
Reaction score
1
Age
42
Location
In Uranus
i thought about ice skating as a date.. how does it work if the girl can't skate?
It's good if she can't skate :D Coz what you do is you "teach" her. Hold their hands and skate in backward infront of them, or say "Here I'll hold your waist so you don't fall" ;)
 
Top