First date at a bar, seated side by side. Girl kept crossing her legs, towards me, and resting one of her legs against mine, almost the entire time. During convo when I would tease or joke she would touch my arm, more than once.
Seems like high interest. Date was relatively short, pulled her towards me for a kiss at the end but she averted into a hug instead, which was fine. I didn’t fully “go for the kiss” as in move my face towards hers, so it’s not like I got a cheek necessarily.
She said she wanted to do it again - sometime next week.
With this one, I’m not planning to reach out first. I’m going to wait at least another day or two (date was last evening) - to allow her a chance to reach out first.
Now, granted high interest women will “usually” reach out first - but this is not 100% always the case. I don’t always assume that if a girl doesn’t initiate after a first date that she is not interested. It just means her interest might be there or might not - zero indication. However if they do initiate, I agree that it is generally an interest indicator.
What sort of text do you initiate with after waiting and giving them a little time to reach out first? I’d like something short, simple, and to the point (asking her availability for a date next week).
Seems like high interest. Date was relatively short, pulled her towards me for a kiss at the end but she averted into a hug instead, which was fine. I didn’t fully “go for the kiss” as in move my face towards hers, so it’s not like I got a cheek necessarily.
She said she wanted to do it again - sometime next week.
With this one, I’m not planning to reach out first. I’m going to wait at least another day or two (date was last evening) - to allow her a chance to reach out first.
Now, granted high interest women will “usually” reach out first - but this is not 100% always the case. I don’t always assume that if a girl doesn’t initiate after a first date that she is not interested. It just means her interest might be there or might not - zero indication. However if they do initiate, I agree that it is generally an interest indicator.
What sort of text do you initiate with after waiting and giving them a little time to reach out first? I’d like something short, simple, and to the point (asking her availability for a date next week).
