First date, and the kiss.

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I was reading the antidump part of the bible today, such great stuff, but i think some of it does not apply to dudes like me who are young and horny. Anyways, I got another chick's number, and what i had in mind, was calling her over the weekend, maybe sunday, and making plans for monday be it lunch,coffee, w/e.

Now, i know alot of you reccomend an action date, but i think it'd just be more mindless bullsh!t at this point, everytime i've talked to this chick(school), we would just make each other laugh, not really learn anything about one another.

Now, as far as the date goes, whever i take her, Iam gonna put on loads of kino, which is all good, but the kiss... When do i initiate a kiss? at the end, also lets say i meet her somewhere, maybe when we are walkin towards the cars? I know antidump advised not to kiss on the 1st date, but honestly, im not sure what to do. Also, what kind of kiss is it? just a quick tongue in the mouth, then pull back look in her eyes, and a kiss on the lips? Need some help with this ya'll.

 

[diablo]

So let me get this straight... from your vast experience you already know that most stuff presented in the DJB doesn't apply to your situation... yet you need us to tell you when you're supposed to kiss a girl?

My advice - read the rest of the DJB.

 

[Slimijs]

When ... you'll probably know. When she gives you IOI's, Kino's you back and starts giving you mad EC.

How ... you can either use the kissing bet or mystery's kiss routine, or DeAngelos kiss test.

Of the three mystery's is the easiest. So here it goes for all you n00bs:

(option 1)
PUA: Would you like to kiss me?

HB : Maybe/ I don't know (they rearly say YES, so this basicly means she wants to)

PUA: So let's find out then.

(option 2)
PUA: Would you like to kiss me?

HB: No.

PUA: Wow, you really know how to wreck a moment, I bet your ex boyfriends hated you for that.
or
PUA: I didn't say you could, I just wanted to see if you wanted ;p

And then punish her for her mistake, and then do it again.

Hope this helps. Props to Mystery

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

hehe....i like thoose. I like option 2.

 

[arutha]

Kino's you back and starts giving you mad EC.

How ... you can either use the kissing bet or mystery's kiss routine, or DeAngelos kiss test

What does EC stand for?


I've read about the hair test one, what does the other involve though?

 

[MindOverMatter]

I wrote a first date guide for people who have problems with the first dates (including kiss initiation..):

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77509