geentalent
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I went on a date with a girl today, let's call her julie.
I've known Julie for a few months, we met on vacation in spain. This was an organised group vacation with a group of 20 students from the same fraternity.
In spain we chatted a bit and i felt like she was interested in me, however besides Julie there was another girl i wanted to persue in spain so I put if off for a while.
Now the other girl didn'nt work out and today i had my first date with Julie. We met for drinks in the centre of the town and afterwards we walked to her house. We get to her room and we close the door and there is just her bed and a desk.
The interesting thing is that i wanted to kiss her, but she sat on the desk chair and i sat on the bed, so it seemed like she was trying to tell me that she didnt want to yet. I guess that if she did she would have sat on the bed next to me. Is this a correct assumption or overthinking it?
Afterwards we said it was fun and split ways, she seemed a bit offended and disappointed.Also she said about 3 times she really enjoyed herself and i would follow it with so did I. I somehow got the feeling she thought i was not really enjoying myself. Also worth noting that most of our conversation was sadly about school. The truth is that i wasn''t enjoying myself, but i really want to sleep with this girl.
Whats the best way to go from here? Ask her out a few days later and set up a date at my home? I have my own condo, so i could invite her over for a movie and see where that gets me. Or is this too soon?
I've known Julie for a few months, we met on vacation in spain. This was an organised group vacation with a group of 20 students from the same fraternity.
In spain we chatted a bit and i felt like she was interested in me, however besides Julie there was another girl i wanted to persue in spain so I put if off for a while.
Now the other girl didn'nt work out and today i had my first date with Julie. We met for drinks in the centre of the town and afterwards we walked to her house. We get to her room and we close the door and there is just her bed and a desk.
The interesting thing is that i wanted to kiss her, but she sat on the desk chair and i sat on the bed, so it seemed like she was trying to tell me that she didnt want to yet. I guess that if she did she would have sat on the bed next to me. Is this a correct assumption or overthinking it?
Afterwards we said it was fun and split ways, she seemed a bit offended and disappointed.Also she said about 3 times she really enjoyed herself and i would follow it with so did I. I somehow got the feeling she thought i was not really enjoying myself. Also worth noting that most of our conversation was sadly about school. The truth is that i wasn''t enjoying myself, but i really want to sleep with this girl.
Whats the best way to go from here? Ask her out a few days later and set up a date at my home? I have my own condo, so i could invite her over for a movie and see where that gets me. Or is this too soon?