cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Bout to go meet a girl i met from the club last week , she got off work and when she changes ima go pick her up and hang out for a while , ill let you guys know what happens =]
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
first club date
- Thread starter cablecow15
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
lol well this was a fun night
I get the directions to her house , and made the mistake of hitting shortest route instead of fastest on my gps , ended up taking me through tons of back roads , took much longer to get there than it should have
then i get there and her room mate lets me in while shes getting ready and i notice that this girl was with one of the other girls i hit on that night , that i thought didnt call back , then all of a sudden that girl comes around the corner ready to go out , apparently i got the girls numbers mixed up and had a completely different girl in mind XD (this girls actually cuter so a pleasant surprise)
Ill now make a mental note to try and take a pick of the girl while im putting her number in from now on to avoid any more confusion
we got out pertty late because she had to work late so there wasent much of anything open , so we went for a drive and eventually stopped in a parking lot to chat (i know not a good "date" idea but the attraction was so obvious in her it didnt matter what we did we talked a good bit and it was really easy to keep the conversation going , she eventually mentioned the kissi gave her when i got her number and made a joke or two then started making out with her , she was really into it , but shed stop randomly for a bit and look away from me lol ( i could tell she was gettin horny and trying to keep herself from banging me XD) .
After a bit more of that i took her home and she lifted up my console n kinda cuddled up next to me on the rode back to her place , might see her tonight but im more tempted to go to the club around her , its ladies night , pluss the nearby collage just finished all their finals , so im sure it will be crazy , i told her to call me if she was going out , so if things dont go well at the club tonight ill have her in my back pocket =]
I get the directions to her house , and made the mistake of hitting shortest route instead of fastest on my gps , ended up taking me through tons of back roads , took much longer to get there than it should have
then i get there and her room mate lets me in while shes getting ready and i notice that this girl was with one of the other girls i hit on that night , that i thought didnt call back , then all of a sudden that girl comes around the corner ready to go out , apparently i got the girls numbers mixed up and had a completely different girl in mind XD (this girls actually cuter so a pleasant surprise)
Ill now make a mental note to try and take a pick of the girl while im putting her number in from now on to avoid any more confusion
we got out pertty late because she had to work late so there wasent much of anything open , so we went for a drive and eventually stopped in a parking lot to chat (i know not a good "date" idea but the attraction was so obvious in her it didnt matter what we did we talked a good bit and it was really easy to keep the conversation going , she eventually mentioned the kissi gave her when i got her number and made a joke or two then started making out with her , she was really into it , but shed stop randomly for a bit and look away from me lol ( i could tell she was gettin horny and trying to keep herself from banging me XD) .
After a bit more of that i took her home and she lifted up my console n kinda cuddled up next to me on the rode back to her place , might see her tonight but im more tempted to go to the club around her , its ladies night , pluss the nearby collage just finished all their finals , so im sure it will be crazy , i told her to call me if she was going out , so if things dont go well at the club tonight ill have her in my back pocket =]
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
ok im a little on the ropes about this girl , when she gets to the club i go to wait in line with her , lol afcishj i know , but there was nobody on the dance floor yet and none of my friends were there , wo we tal ka bit and i have to go piss and i say by and go to kiss her n she turns her head really quick so i get her cheek , at this point im think ing , oh thats how its gonna be huh b!*tch? and i proceed to go piss , I ignore her for most of the night n casually run into her on occasion then id ask for a dance , shed decline , id laugh it off and find another girl or two or three to dance with.
id only go to her if there was a shortage of girls to dance with , idk if she noticed this or what , but later on if danced with her to a slow song , tried to kiss her later on , called her a tease ,because she pulled the cheek thing again , she made a funny face and said am not and I reply bullcrap or something and she walks off.
Im not really invested in her , but i do know she was drinking and both times i tried to kiss her she was around alot of people , and when we made out we were alone , im thinking this has alot to do with it , shes admitted to being shy , so ill hold off for a few days and maybe call her up for a date later on in the week , if that flakes ill be done with her
id only go to her if there was a shortage of girls to dance with , idk if she noticed this or what , but later on if danced with her to a slow song , tried to kiss her later on , called her a tease ,because she pulled the cheek thing again , she made a funny face and said am not and I reply bullcrap or something and she walks off.
Im not really invested in her , but i do know she was drinking and both times i tried to kiss her she was around alot of people , and when we made out we were alone , im thinking this has alot to do with it , shes admitted to being shy , so ill hold off for a few days and maybe call her up for a date later on in the week , if that flakes ill be done with her
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
A man who is not a challenge. Cable cow how do you expect to keep this girls interest level up if your not a mystery to her?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
You met up with this girl two days ago and your already showing her all this attention at the club and your trying to kiss her in public! It's obvious that you like her way more then she likes you. That's absurd that you tryed to kiss her in public like that.... you haven't even hit it yet.cablecow15 said:
In public you need to give this girl the cold shoulder. Next time you both hangout you need to get her to the house and try to seal the deal.
It's obvious this is the only girl your spinning man. Get some more females and this "thirsty vibe" your giving will automatically go away playa.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.