cablecow15
Master Don Juan
Bout to go meet a girl i met from the club last week , she got off work and when she changes ima go pick her up and hang out for a while , ill let you guys know what happens =]
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
first club date
- Thread starter cablecow15
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
lol well this was a fun night
I get the directions to her house , and made the mistake of hitting shortest route instead of fastest on my gps , ended up taking me through tons of back roads , took much longer to get there than it should have
then i get there and her room mate lets me in while shes getting ready and i notice that this girl was with one of the other girls i hit on that night , that i thought didnt call back , then all of a sudden that girl comes around the corner ready to go out , apparently i got the girls numbers mixed up and had a completely different girl in mind XD (this girls actually cuter so a pleasant surprise)
Ill now make a mental note to try and take a pick of the girl while im putting her number in from now on to avoid any more confusion
we got out pertty late because she had to work late so there wasent much of anything open , so we went for a drive and eventually stopped in a parking lot to chat (i know not a good "date" idea but the attraction was so obvious in her it didnt matter what we did we talked a good bit and it was really easy to keep the conversation going , she eventually mentioned the kissi gave her when i got her number and made a joke or two then started making out with her , she was really into it , but shed stop randomly for a bit and look away from me lol ( i could tell she was gettin horny and trying to keep herself from banging me XD) .
After a bit more of that i took her home and she lifted up my console n kinda cuddled up next to me on the rode back to her place , might see her tonight but im more tempted to go to the club around her , its ladies night , pluss the nearby collage just finished all their finals , so im sure it will be crazy , i told her to call me if she was going out , so if things dont go well at the club tonight ill have her in my back pocket =]
I get the directions to her house , and made the mistake of hitting shortest route instead of fastest on my gps , ended up taking me through tons of back roads , took much longer to get there than it should have
then i get there and her room mate lets me in while shes getting ready and i notice that this girl was with one of the other girls i hit on that night , that i thought didnt call back , then all of a sudden that girl comes around the corner ready to go out , apparently i got the girls numbers mixed up and had a completely different girl in mind XD (this girls actually cuter so a pleasant surprise)
Ill now make a mental note to try and take a pick of the girl while im putting her number in from now on to avoid any more confusion
we got out pertty late because she had to work late so there wasent much of anything open , so we went for a drive and eventually stopped in a parking lot to chat (i know not a good "date" idea but the attraction was so obvious in her it didnt matter what we did we talked a good bit and it was really easy to keep the conversation going , she eventually mentioned the kissi gave her when i got her number and made a joke or two then started making out with her , she was really into it , but shed stop randomly for a bit and look away from me lol ( i could tell she was gettin horny and trying to keep herself from banging me XD) .
After a bit more of that i took her home and she lifted up my console n kinda cuddled up next to me on the rode back to her place , might see her tonight but im more tempted to go to the club around her , its ladies night , pluss the nearby collage just finished all their finals , so im sure it will be crazy , i told her to call me if she was going out , so if things dont go well at the club tonight ill have her in my back pocket =]
cablecow15
Master Don Juan
ok im a little on the ropes about this girl , when she gets to the club i go to wait in line with her , lol afcishj i know , but there was nobody on the dance floor yet and none of my friends were there , wo we tal ka bit and i have to go piss and i say by and go to kiss her n she turns her head really quick so i get her cheek , at this point im think ing , oh thats how its gonna be huh b!*tch? and i proceed to go piss , I ignore her for most of the night n casually run into her on occasion then id ask for a dance , shed decline , id laugh it off and find another girl or two or three to dance with.
id only go to her if there was a shortage of girls to dance with , idk if she noticed this or what , but later on if danced with her to a slow song , tried to kiss her later on , called her a tease ,because she pulled the cheek thing again , she made a funny face and said am not and I reply bullcrap or something and she walks off.
Im not really invested in her , but i do know she was drinking and both times i tried to kiss her she was around alot of people , and when we made out we were alone , im thinking this has alot to do with it , shes admitted to being shy , so ill hold off for a few days and maybe call her up for a date later on in the week , if that flakes ill be done with her
id only go to her if there was a shortage of girls to dance with , idk if she noticed this or what , but later on if danced with her to a slow song , tried to kiss her later on , called her a tease ,because she pulled the cheek thing again , she made a funny face and said am not and I reply bullcrap or something and she walks off.
Im not really invested in her , but i do know she was drinking and both times i tried to kiss her she was around alot of people , and when we made out we were alone , im thinking this has alot to do with it , shes admitted to being shy , so ill hold off for a few days and maybe call her up for a date later on in the week , if that flakes ill be done with her
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
A man who is not a challenge. Cable cow how do you expect to keep this girls interest level up if your not a mystery to her?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
You met up with this girl two days ago and your already showing her all this attention at the club and your trying to kiss her in public! It's obvious that you like her way more then she likes you. That's absurd that you tryed to kiss her in public like that.... you haven't even hit it yet.cablecow15 said:
In public you need to give this girl the cold shoulder. Next time you both hangout you need to get her to the house and try to seal the deal.
It's obvious this is the only girl your spinning man. Get some more females and this "thirsty vibe" your giving will automatically go away playa.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.