"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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first break up in a few years.

xomel

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Theres this girl, I didnt really like her. She wanted me so bad, everytime she was with me she couldnt help but to make out and start dry humping. But I didnt really like her, just the way she made me feel. I never asked her out, she kept bringing it up, when I brought it up I would always mention I wanted sex. She said that was more than she wanted and she just wanted a high school fling. After I started bringing up sex she always said the night after she sucked my dlck if she said "I dont know if I really like you, when im with you I like you so much that it's scary. When I'm not with you I feel like I dont like you and I scare my self." At first I didnt know what to think but now I understand, I cut the bltch off. I gave nothing into the relationship, but I got everything out of the relationship. I didnt give the bltch jack ****. And she found her self sucking my **** every night she saw me. I AM TOTALLY CONFIDENT WITH THIS. She said on the phone that shes not sure if she liked me. She said hang on I'll call you back later. I called her back in a minute and said "I think that there is too much drama going on, I think I'm going to break it off with you okay?" Then she acted perfectly fine with that. Now I'm just affraid of how I make her feel. If I'll permanently damage her or what?

all in all it lasted about 2 and a half weeks.

All i know is I left having more.

I think the reasons why she was feeling that way:
1. I never asked her out
2. I got too much but didnt give enough back

I think it all comes from me not liking her in the first place.

Not sure.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LikRetsam

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Maybe she finally gave up because you wern't putting out?
 

LikRetsam

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Good question. I have forgotten to leave it running on my browsing pc!
 
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