Today I went to a concert. Got a bit drunk with friends. Saw a group of 3 girls all about 8's. Went over on my own, put my hand on one girls shoulder and asked her friends if it was okay if i borrowed her so i could flirt with her. They said 'sure, no problem' and seemed happy/fine with it. The girl I was targeting however, said it wasn't okay so I just walked away. I shrugged it off and carried on having a good time. My question is, was this the right approach to use and the girl just wasn't receptive/attracted, or is there another way i should of approached this girl. Thanks in advance.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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