"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Today I went to a concert. Got a bit drunk with friends. Saw a group of 3 girls all about 8's. Went over on my own, put my hand on one girls shoulder and asked her friends if it was okay if i borrowed her so i could flirt with her. They said 'sure, no problem' and seemed happy/fine with it. The girl I was targeting however, said it wasn't okay so I just walked away. I shrugged it off and carried on having a good time. My question is, was this the right approach to use and the girl just wasn't receptive/attracted, or is there another way i should of approached this girl. Thanks in advance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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4north1side2 said:
The only thing you did wrong was put your hand on her shoulder. Personally I just don't touch strangers immediately, that's grounds to getting your ass kicked or even worse, a sexual harassment charge. I need an verbal or an very clear cut physical green light first for touching.
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If you only wait for clear signs of interest before approaching a girl, your missing out on a lot of girls and more importantly going after the girls you really want.

Where he went wrong was to announce why he was trying to borrow her from her group. Instead he should have approached the group as a whole, won the approval of the two friends by flirting with them and only giving his target girl faint interest, then isolated.








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