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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Today I went to a concert. Got a bit drunk with friends. Saw a group of 3 girls all about 8's. Went over on my own, put my hand on one girls shoulder and asked her friends if it was okay if i borrowed her so i could flirt with her. They said 'sure, no problem' and seemed happy/fine with it. The girl I was targeting however, said it wasn't okay so I just walked away. I shrugged it off and carried on having a good time. My question is, was this the right approach to use and the girl just wasn't receptive/attracted, or is there another way i should of approached this girl. Thanks in advance.
 

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4north1side2 said:
The only thing you did wrong was put your hand on her shoulder. Personally I just don't touch strangers immediately, that's grounds to getting your ass kicked or even worse, a sexual harassment charge. I need an verbal or an very clear cut physical green light first for touching.
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If you only wait for clear signs of interest before approaching a girl, your missing out on a lot of girls and more importantly going after the girls you really want.

Where he went wrong was to announce why he was trying to borrow her from her group. Instead he should have approached the group as a whole, won the approval of the two friends by flirting with them and only giving his target girl faint interest, then isolated.








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