"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Finishing Touches

TheMonkeyKing

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In the last few months I have been hitting stride physically and mentally and I know where I am going. I am also happy in the moment and accept the past for what and where it is.

What I need now are tips on the finishing touches: personal, superficial, physical or behavioural. Anything really.

I am attracting women, but for whatever reason, the ones that I am really attracted to don't seem to be biting much (yet).

Take last weekend for example. Three women met, two 8's, one 6; three numbers taken, only the 6 is responding.

Girl 6
Met while watching rugby. She was working behind the bar. Insta-date after the game (just because I wanted another drink). She went out, I went out elsewhere.

Great personality and chat. Would probably be a 7 or 8 but carrying too much weight for my preference.

Has text like three times today alone.

Girl 8(a)
An old flame I bumped into. She runs up to me, very enthusiastic and re-introduces herself. I take the number. Looks like she has a BF on social media.

Message unseen.

Girl 8(b)
Met in the club. Danced with her and kissed a bit. She was with just one other friend, but was paying a lot of attention. Might have been able to take her home (if I'd offered). Alas, I never offered.

Message seen. No response.


Fair enough, I know it's far too early to truly gauge interest, even within the same week with some girls. I also appreciate differing the SMV transactions play. What I'm wondering about it finishing touches that really help us transcend from attracting women to attracting the women we actually really want.

I'm getting interest and I know I'm about to start getting what I want. Just wondering about those last little things that have helped guys finally start getting the women they truly desire.

Thoughts, stories and advice appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AlphaNate

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It helps when you realize that the 6, the 8, and the 9.9 are all the same. The main difference is that it takes me less time to bust on the 9.9's face.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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It helps when you realize that the 6, the 8, and the 9.9 are all the same. The main difference is that it takes me less time to bust on the 9.9's face.
:D Ha. Fair enough.

Doesn't feel like I'm doing anything particularly differently. Maybe just a numbers game.
 
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