"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Finishing Touches

TheMonkeyKing

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In the last few months I have been hitting stride physically and mentally and I know where I am going. I am also happy in the moment and accept the past for what and where it is.

What I need now are tips on the finishing touches: personal, superficial, physical or behavioural. Anything really.

I am attracting women, but for whatever reason, the ones that I am really attracted to don't seem to be biting much (yet).

Take last weekend for example. Three women met, two 8's, one 6; three numbers taken, only the 6 is responding.

Girl 6
Met while watching rugby. She was working behind the bar. Insta-date after the game (just because I wanted another drink). She went out, I went out elsewhere.

Great personality and chat. Would probably be a 7 or 8 but carrying too much weight for my preference.

Has text like three times today alone.

Girl 8(a)
An old flame I bumped into. She runs up to me, very enthusiastic and re-introduces herself. I take the number. Looks like she has a BF on social media.

Message unseen.

Girl 8(b)
Met in the club. Danced with her and kissed a bit. She was with just one other friend, but was paying a lot of attention. Might have been able to take her home (if I'd offered). Alas, I never offered.

Message seen. No response.


Fair enough, I know it's far too early to truly gauge interest, even within the same week with some girls. I also appreciate differing the SMV transactions play. What I'm wondering about it finishing touches that really help us transcend from attracting women to attracting the women we actually really want.

I'm getting interest and I know I'm about to start getting what I want. Just wondering about those last little things that have helped guys finally start getting the women they truly desire.

Thoughts, stories and advice appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It helps when you realize that the 6, the 8, and the 9.9 are all the same. The main difference is that it takes me less time to bust on the 9.9's face.
 

TheMonkeyKing

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It helps when you realize that the 6, the 8, and the 9.9 are all the same. The main difference is that it takes me less time to bust on the 9.9's face.
:D Ha. Fair enough.

Doesn't feel like I'm doing anything particularly differently. Maybe just a numbers game.
 
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