Finishing the deal

[spinnin9902]

I swear somethings wrong with me. Here is the story, so theres this girl I ask to prom she was a sophomore and before it I was pretty sure she liked me. So we get to prom and she starts acting weird out of nowhere. The only time she wanted to dance was when her friends were out there. She basically ruined the whole night for me and I am still pissed about the situation. I really liked this girl.

The real problem is still underneath this. I can never get a real girlfriend. Like the only two girlfriends I've seriously had I met over the computer. I don't understand why I can never close the deal. I succeed in gaming the girl up and getting them to like me but then when it comes to having them as my girlfriend I just can't get it. Can somebody please give me advice on this!

 

[lili19771]

Move the on. Maybe she'll even get jealous, but never go back to her.

When you say "there's something wrong with you," we cant really help you with that without a single detail about yourself. However, go read some articles on http://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Its called leading. You gotta take the action, and she will follow. You simply have to pass some tones. I couldn't take it further with a lot of girls last summer holiday. I simply couldn't. I was too afraid. In november I simply went for it. You simply have to do it, and realize that its not really a risk. Back to the milestones - just something I came up with now. The videly known actions that starts a new kind of relationship. Ie: hugging, holding hands, kissing, sex, and so on I suppose. Just do it.

 

[Nino-Tk]

Be honest, upfront and straightforward with your desires, everything will fall into place then.