"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Finishing the deal

spinnin9902

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I swear somethings wrong with me. Here is the story, so theres this girl I ask to prom she was a sophomore and before it I was pretty sure she liked me. So we get to prom and she starts acting weird out of nowhere. The only time she wanted to dance was when her friends were out there. She basically ruined the whole night for me and I am still pissed about the situation. I really liked this girl.

The real problem is still underneath this. I can never get a real girlfriend. Like the only two girlfriends I've seriously had I met over the computer. I don't understand why I can never close the deal. I succeed in gaming the girl up and getting them to like me but then when it comes to having them as my girlfriend I just can't get it. Can somebody please give me advice on this!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lili19771

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Move the on. Maybe she'll even get jealous, but never go back to her.

When you say "there's something wrong with you," we cant really help you with that without a single detail about yourself. However, go read some articles on http://www.sosuave.com/bible/bible.htm
 

NorwegianDJ

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Its called leading. You gotta take the action, and she will follow. You simply have to pass some tones. I couldn't take it further with a lot of girls last summer holiday. I simply couldn't. I was too afraid. In november I simply went for it. You simply have to do it, and realize that its not really a risk. Back to the milestones - just something I came up with now. The videly known actions that starts a new kind of relationship. Ie: hugging, holding hands, kissing, sex, and so on I suppose. Just do it.
 
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