Originally posted by laskoe
More information is needed, to help you,
So far
the best way to ask her out is to make a statement , not ask a question.
like this:
"Hey heather
It would Be a great idea if i had your number and called you,. . . because. . . it would be great if you joined me at pizza shack for some peperoni on friday. . . . im going at 8. right before i hit the mall. ect. "
that is just an example ,you didn't ask for anything, so she cant refuse anything ! make sense?
say this word for word or whatever part you need dont aks her for shi*t , she will feel more atractive toward you if her own mind doesnt have to be used to make a Date with herelf, Therefore set the time of the event don let her set the time. so dont ask her what time to pick her up. just say im driving ,
in her mind this all registers as a question that she has to answer any way, but for you its win win (as asking for the date), becuse you didnt ask for anything. you are already enthusiastic to go to that place at 8. anyway!!
very simple
if she says she is busy at eight, she will give you a couple of times that are much better, or her IL is very very low,
In that case keep her on side , and find other chicks
(while learning about attraction and discovering how to create attraction in women that you are interested in)
if you ask her what time to pick her up on you first date she will turn on that evil little mind that is called
control, and eventualy she will be the boss. she will be in command and you will be a pawn that is under her control or else she will try harsh tactics to keep you in check,
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