"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finished off a "good girl" seduction today

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I dunno why I did this to myself but I decided to seduce a "good girl" who doesnt cheat on her bf. We talked on the phone the day before quite a bit. Well anyway she was kind of peeved because he had some girls tits from a bar on his phone so I knew the iron was hot, but I had nowhere to take her and she's not the kind to agree to go to a hotel as she's worried about being seen as slutty. So I rented the hotel in advance and got one of the rooms by the back door (damn why couldn they be outside accessible). I picked her up and after lunch I told her I had a surprise for her so I had close her eyes and I guided her into the room. HAHAH, that part was funny. Well we watched some tv and I could tell she was apprehensive so I left the curtain open for comfort. then I got her horny and after a bit she closed the shades so I knew I was golden at that point. Finished the bang job and took her back before the bf got off work. That was fun. Of course I got the usual "I can't believe I did that" speech, lol, only this time it was a little more authentic than usual but still it's always funny to get the after the fact lines.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good job man. All girls love to use that "I've never done this, Can't believe I did that" speech. haha.

"Iron was hot" - great quote in your post. You definately took advantage of a red hot situation.

So why the hotel? Don't you have a place of your own?

Maybe you can make the steal on this girl. Make her yours. Depends on how you feel about her though, I suppose.
 

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Four_Aces said:
Maybe you can make the steal on this girl. Make her yours. Depends on how you feel about her though, I suppose.
Why would he do that? She cheats on her BF cuz he had tits on his phone. She aint no good girl, just a good actor. Those are the most dangerous kind. I would hope EWH is smarter than that.

it was a little more authentic than usual
I'd give her a little more credit if she started screaming and crying about how much she hates herself. Good girl my ass.
 

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Cannot bring anyone to my place. Might be a good thing anyway, If they know where I live it's always possible for one of them to stalk me down and start crap if they get mad. She's a cool person and it's not that I don't like her but I just want to be friends that;s all, don't want to have a relationship and I kind of wished I had not started this now because she keeps bringing that up. ugggggggggh. Im going to have to back off this one before she gets too crazy about things.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's no good girl.

The OP didn't even talk her into it.
 

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everywomanshero said:
I dunno why I did this to myself but I decided to seduce a "good girl" who doesnt cheat on her bf. We talked on the phone the day before quite a bit. Well anyway she was kind o
she is a player nothing more... far from a good girl...
 

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DonGorgon said:
she is a player nothing more... far from a good girl...
If you push the right buttons you can make any "good" girl do something she normally wouldn't. Just because she ended up sleeping with the OP doesn't mean she's a player. It just means she got seduced.
 

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How do you meet these girls with bfs? I mean, are they old friends or new ones that just seem to give you thier numbers, then their pvssies??
 

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The most obvious signals are engagement rings or wedding rings, the other is to find out early on in the interaction by baiting or directly asking. It's better to ask rather than waste a bunch of time only to find out she's single. In a nightclub sometimes the guy is even there but more often it's girls night out. I have met them at mall food courts, college campuses, online, apartment buildings, nightclubs, kareoke bars, house parties, parades, once at a beach, and offices. They have to meet guys somewhere so you know they will be in certain locations in higher concentrations and sometimes Ive ran into the same woman in more than one avenue of contact, for example Ive seen one I boinked from a nightclub online before. lol. It's really quite easy if you really want to do it. Just like in this case though I had to be willing to push the comfort level and go for the gold. There are guys who do not take risks, and there are guys who seduce many women, but there are no guys who do not take risks and seduce many women. This PU follows the same formula as all others, attract-isolate-fvck. She's attracted to me and I was able to create an isolation situation just within the acceptable boundaries and the result is sex as would be expected.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dbot said:
If you push the right buttons you can make any "good" girl do something she normally wouldn't. Just because she ended up sleeping with the OP doesn't mean she's a player. It just means she got seduced.

i you check you will find that she has done this before and mastered the art of appearing innocent... like 99% of human females...
 

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She had a "boyfriend"? Big deal. Must be at least 10 responders giving the girl a hard time for "cheating". Plenty of good girls "cheat" on a boyfriend. It's not like she was married, or something.

Hey guys, either just date or just get married. Don't be fooled into thinking that if you obtain "boyfriend" status, I'd mean anything. In my experience, it only means two things; that'd be jack and s***.

If anything, girls see the advantage of having a boyfriend, as a way of hoping you don't date other girls, while they continue to swap to a better man at exactly the point that they see fit to do so. That's what smart girls do, not "bad" ones.

AFAIK "kids" have boyfriends and girlfriends. Adults "date" or "get married".
 
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