"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Finished off a "good girl" seduction today

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I dunno why I did this to myself but I decided to seduce a "good girl" who doesnt cheat on her bf. We talked on the phone the day before quite a bit. Well anyway she was kind of peeved because he had some girls tits from a bar on his phone so I knew the iron was hot, but I had nowhere to take her and she's not the kind to agree to go to a hotel as she's worried about being seen as slutty. So I rented the hotel in advance and got one of the rooms by the back door (damn why couldn they be outside accessible). I picked her up and after lunch I told her I had a surprise for her so I had close her eyes and I guided her into the room. HAHAH, that part was funny. Well we watched some tv and I could tell she was apprehensive so I left the curtain open for comfort. then I got her horny and after a bit she closed the shades so I knew I was golden at that point. Finished the bang job and took her back before the bf got off work. That was fun. Of course I got the usual "I can't believe I did that" speech, lol, only this time it was a little more authentic than usual but still it's always funny to get the after the fact lines.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Good job man. All girls love to use that "I've never done this, Can't believe I did that" speech. haha.

"Iron was hot" - great quote in your post. You definately took advantage of a red hot situation.

So why the hotel? Don't you have a place of your own?

Maybe you can make the steal on this girl. Make her yours. Depends on how you feel about her though, I suppose.
 

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Four_Aces said:
Maybe you can make the steal on this girl. Make her yours. Depends on how you feel about her though, I suppose.
Why would he do that? She cheats on her BF cuz he had tits on his phone. She aint no good girl, just a good actor. Those are the most dangerous kind. I would hope EWH is smarter than that.

it was a little more authentic than usual
I'd give her a little more credit if she started screaming and crying about how much she hates herself. Good girl my ass.
 

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Cannot bring anyone to my place. Might be a good thing anyway, If they know where I live it's always possible for one of them to stalk me down and start crap if they get mad. She's a cool person and it's not that I don't like her but I just want to be friends that;s all, don't want to have a relationship and I kind of wished I had not started this now because she keeps bringing that up. ugggggggggh. Im going to have to back off this one before she gets too crazy about things.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That's no good girl.

The OP didn't even talk her into it.
 

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everywomanshero said:
I dunno why I did this to myself but I decided to seduce a "good girl" who doesnt cheat on her bf. We talked on the phone the day before quite a bit. Well anyway she was kind o
she is a player nothing more... far from a good girl...
 

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DonGorgon said:
she is a player nothing more... far from a good girl...
If you push the right buttons you can make any "good" girl do something she normally wouldn't. Just because she ended up sleeping with the OP doesn't mean she's a player. It just means she got seduced.
 

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How do you meet these girls with bfs? I mean, are they old friends or new ones that just seem to give you thier numbers, then their pvssies??
 

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The most obvious signals are engagement rings or wedding rings, the other is to find out early on in the interaction by baiting or directly asking. It's better to ask rather than waste a bunch of time only to find out she's single. In a nightclub sometimes the guy is even there but more often it's girls night out. I have met them at mall food courts, college campuses, online, apartment buildings, nightclubs, kareoke bars, house parties, parades, once at a beach, and offices. They have to meet guys somewhere so you know they will be in certain locations in higher concentrations and sometimes Ive ran into the same woman in more than one avenue of contact, for example Ive seen one I boinked from a nightclub online before. lol. It's really quite easy if you really want to do it. Just like in this case though I had to be willing to push the comfort level and go for the gold. There are guys who do not take risks, and there are guys who seduce many women, but there are no guys who do not take risks and seduce many women. This PU follows the same formula as all others, attract-isolate-fvck. She's attracted to me and I was able to create an isolation situation just within the acceptable boundaries and the result is sex as would be expected.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dbot said:
If you push the right buttons you can make any "good" girl do something she normally wouldn't. Just because she ended up sleeping with the OP doesn't mean she's a player. It just means she got seduced.

i you check you will find that she has done this before and mastered the art of appearing innocent... like 99% of human females...
 

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She had a "boyfriend"? Big deal. Must be at least 10 responders giving the girl a hard time for "cheating". Plenty of good girls "cheat" on a boyfriend. It's not like she was married, or something.

Hey guys, either just date or just get married. Don't be fooled into thinking that if you obtain "boyfriend" status, I'd mean anything. In my experience, it only means two things; that'd be jack and s***.

If anything, girls see the advantage of having a boyfriend, as a way of hoping you don't date other girls, while they continue to swap to a better man at exactly the point that they see fit to do so. That's what smart girls do, not "bad" ones.

AFAIK "kids" have boyfriends and girlfriends. Adults "date" or "get married".
 
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