"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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crust45833

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OK I've fingered my girlfriend twice now and im not sure if im doing it right. Shes only moaning and not really that loud. Should she have an orgasm, or what ways should i be doing it to enhance her pleasure?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AC/DC

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If she's moaning you're doing SOMETHING right! :)

Guys aren't very good at it, so just follow her directions and kiss her while you do it, vary speeds and motions.

She probably won't orgasm unless you eat her out :eek: so just dont worry about that aspect of it. If you're not ready or not willing to go down on her, then don't likely expect her to.

One of my exes; the only time I got her off from fingering is when she put her hand over mine and did it.

Most important tip: DONT GET FRUSTRATED! If you get frustrated it ruins the mood. Try to avoid fingering if you can.

Good luck, KEEP ME UPDATED.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
If she's moaning you're doing SOMETHING right! :)

Guys aren't very good at it, so just follow her directions and kiss her while you do it, vary speeds and motions.

She probably won't orgasm unless you eat her out
Sorry Sebastian, I'm gonna have to correct you there....

Every girl is different. Some girls are sensitive and can get off quickly and easily. Others...Well, can't. Sounds like your girl can't. So here are some of the things you can do...

- Rub her ****. If you don't know what that is, do a search online.

- Hit the G-Spot. See: Above.

- You could be going too slow. Speed it up a little. Go faster. Ask her what she likes. Do that.

- Tease her before you do anything. Get her really turned on and wanting it. That should help things.
 

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You should always tease her before-hand. Let her show you where she's sensitive at. It's different for every girl. Move around a little bit and try and find it. You could try sucking on her titties while you do it too. I mean it's really hard for any guy to be a pro at it. The girl's probably done it a lot more than you have, so let her direct you.
 

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Get her really turned on before you do anything. So turned that shes moaning and beggingfor your ****. Worked for me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vincent

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Sex = Anything else.
 

Hot Ice

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I strongly suggest you seek sex advice on some sites that are made for it.

There's plenty of good info around.

for example:

http://www.infosex.com/cl1t.htm

there is many other more informative sites so go googling.



Like Eternal said, every girl is different. Some can't come orally, many can't come vaginally, ****oris is the easiest way.

She probably won't orgasm unless you eat her out
Bleh, I've fingered a girl from no-touching to orgasm in 1-2 minutes.
 

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Do the shocker!

2 in the pink,
1 int he stink

Shock- Her!
 
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