"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Finding your passion makes all the difference

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I just watched an episode of "Rapture", a mini series about hip hop. This episode was about Logic (The rapper who sang the "1-800" song). You'd never guess he's a rapper if you saw him. He looks like an AFC dweeb. But he worked his way to becoming an internationally known star with millions of fans, not to mention a Grammy nomination. He's had many demons (anxiety attacks, parents who abused him, grew up in the projects) but now he has a hot wife and is going on tour.

The guys on here who say you should follow your passion and girls will follow are absolutely correct. Girls shouldn't be the end goal. Find your passion and devote your life to it. We all get lazy at times. Life gets tough. But don't fall into the trap of thinking your life sucks because of women. Logic had it much worse than us and look what he made of himself.

I'm not a big fan of Corey Wayne, but this is what he preaches and I believe him. Once you find your passion, life becomes really fun and you'll not only meet hot girls but you'll also meet great friends and make money in the process.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It really is simple and hard at the same time, a lot of men don't chase, but subconsciously chase
 

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It really is simple and hard at the same time, a lot of men don't chase, but subconsciously chase
Yep, it's not the physical act of chasing, but a mental focus.

When men focus on women, they lose power. Ultimately destroying any attraction in the processs.
 

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I've got a serious hobby I've been passionate about since a young age. I compete on a semi-pro/regional level and half of the year I'm gone competing at events. Girls love to ask questions about it and become highly interested in it. Once they attend one of my events they are hooked. They see the passion and dedication it takes. I've had more than one tell me that watching me compete makes them horny/wet in the panties!~ The majority of my life I have put my passion for my hobby before any woman.

I see so many guys out there that have little direction. They aren't passionate about anything in life. They lack drive. They lack ambition. They haven't accomplished anything. All of those things are attractive to women. And with it comes money, success, and notoriety.

These things were all buried in the platform that Urbanyst pushed yet so many hated hearing.
 

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I just watched an episode of "Rapture", a mini series about hip hop. This episode was about Logic (The rapper who sang the "1-800" song). You'd never guess he's a rapper if you saw him. He looks like an AFC dweeb. But he worked his way to becoming an internationally known star with millions of fans, not to mention a Grammy nomination. He's had many demons (anxiety attacks, parents who abused him, grew up in the projects) but now he has a hot wife and is going on tour.

The guys on here who say you should follow your passion and girls will follow are absolutely correct. Girls shouldn't be the end goal. Find your passion and devote your life to it. We all get lazy at times. Life gets tough. But don't fall into the trap of thinking your life sucks because of women. Logic had it much worse than us and look what he made of himself.

I'm not a big fan of Corey Wayne, but this is what he preaches and I believe him. Once you find your passion, life becomes really fun and you'll not only meet hot girls but you'll also meet great friends and make money in the process.
another incredibly stupid f*cking thread

OP what's your answer then for what's going on in my life?

- I have a job I enjoy immensely and make huge money at
- Fantastic with managing finances, I'll retire at 50 if I want to
- Great friends/great family
- Vacations 6-8 times a year in all sorts of amazing locations
- Go to the best concerts/sports events/restaurants/bars/clubs/etc...
- Have hobbies that I enjoy immensely
- In great shape, attractive and very healthy

yet I still have zero attractive women my age who are ever interested in me.

I live life with tremendous passion in everything I do and love all aspects of my life outside of dating
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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another incredibly stupid f*cking thread

OP what's your answer then for what's going on in my life?

- I have a job I enjoy immensely and make huge money at
- Fantastic with managing finances, I'll retire at 50 if I want to
- Great friends/great family
- Vacations 6-8 times a year in all sorts of amazing locations
- Go to the best concerts/sports events/restaurants/bars/clubs/etc...
- Have hobbies that I enjoy immensely
- In great shape, attractive and very healthy

yet I still have zero attractive women my age who are ever interested in me.

I live life with tremendous passion in everything I do and love all aspects of my life outside of dating
It's your attitude
 

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I just watched an episode of "Rapture", a mini series about hip hop. This episode was about Logic (The rapper who sang the "1-800" song). You'd never guess he's a rapper if you saw him. He looks like an AFC dweeb. But he worked his way to becoming an internationally known star with millions of fans, not to mention a Grammy nomination. He's had many demons (anxiety attacks, parents who abused him, grew up in the projects) but now he has a hot wife and is going on tour.

The guys on here who say you should follow your passion and girls will follow are absolutely correct. Girls shouldn't be the end goal. Find your passion and devote your life to it. We all get lazy at times. Life gets tough. But don't fall into the trap of thinking your life sucks because of women. Logic had it much worse than us and look what he made of himself.

I'm not a big fan of Corey Wayne, but this is what he preaches and I believe him. Once you find your passion, life becomes really fun and you'll not only meet hot girls but you'll also meet great friends and make money in the process.
Lol @ Corey Wayne. You know where this queer stole that from? Pook. He was the OG who first stated that if you follow your passion, women will in return. And Logic is still a piece of **** too. He ripped off 1-800 from Joyner Lucas and Tech N9ne and got famous for it. Those 2 dudes are the real ones who came up with it. The nerdy kid just stole it, he didn't follow his dream. I think he got famous for it because since he is white, a lot more white people listen to that stuff, and suicide is mostly done by whites tbh. But he is still an asshole for doing that though.
 
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