For all you DJs, if you thought you found the special person at an early age (21-24) would you leave your ways and be with one person? I am in a situation where I have the best gf yet I still want to see and experience other girls. I am always looking for a chase. My gf is great does not whine, b**ch, has lets me hang with friends, great sense of humor, etc. everything anyone wants in a gf, but again I have this problem, and she noticed that I was drifting away, so we had a talk, and now I do not know what to do.
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spider_007
Master Don Juan
hey sometimes the guy or gurl can be perfect, exact qualities your looking for. But they are still not the one. They don't drive you crazy (in a good way)
Hellboy
Senior Don Juan
I have a vicious cycle of exactly what you are talking about. I get into close loving relationships with gorgeous, funny, interesting women then I get a roving eye and start to feel trapped.
The grass always seems greener.
Then I fall foul of my urges and start thinking with my dyck. I break the girls heart and then regret it, only to find that it's too late. Then I find myself wallowing in self pity and regret and have a bit of an identity crisis, until I get my head screwed back on and meet another girl. Then the whole process starts over.
Now I'm determined not to get that close to another girl unless I'm sure I want it to go the distance. It's not fair on the girls. And it's definetely bad news for your head.
The grass always seems greener.
Then I fall foul of my urges and start thinking with my dyck. I break the girls heart and then regret it, only to find that it's too late. Then I find myself wallowing in self pity and regret and have a bit of an identity crisis, until I get my head screwed back on and meet another girl. Then the whole process starts over.
Now I'm determined not to get that close to another girl unless I'm sure I want it to go the distance. It's not fair on the girls. And it's definetely bad news for your head.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.