For all you DJs, if you thought you found the special person at an early age (21-24) would you leave your ways and be with one person? I am in a situation where I have the best gf yet I still want to see and experience other girls. I am always looking for a chase. My gf is great does not whine, b**ch, has lets me hang with friends, great sense of humor, etc. everything anyone wants in a gf, but again I have this problem, and she noticed that I was drifting away, so we had a talk, and now I do not know what to do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Finding the "right" one
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