"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Finding out that "she" thinks your hot? Cute? Share your stories..

In2theGame

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Making this thread may help others who feel discouraged by not getting hit on or ignored by girls around them, Or so they think. Share your stories about a time where you hung around a group of girls or you knew a girl who ignored you or acted as if you werent even alive and then come to find out she thought you were Hot, Cute..etc.

Girls can just be intimidated by you or may not talk to you because while your thinking "Damn, shes so cute but she doesnt seem like she likes me or even looks at me" Meanwhile, She's thinking.. "Hes really cute, why would he even talk to me. I rather not even bother. He wouldnt like me".

Happens Alot.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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saber

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This isn't exactly the same but last night hung out with some friends and girl who I know is attracted to me but won't give any good eye contact, convo and kinda stays within the group's dynamics if that makes sense.

I feel kinda stupid for not working harder to isolate her but some girls won't do any of the work!
 

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Every freaking teenage maid I have ever had acts this way. Same goes for just about every teenage waitress at every bar/cafe in Ukraine. As soon as they find out that I am not Caucasian or Tatarian their eyes start to flutter around when they give me my order or my change. The girls are so damn passive though. Building any sort of relationship takes forever.
 
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