"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Finding out that "she" thinks your hot? Cute? Share your stories..

In2theGame

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Making this thread may help others who feel discouraged by not getting hit on or ignored by girls around them, Or so they think. Share your stories about a time where you hung around a group of girls or you knew a girl who ignored you or acted as if you werent even alive and then come to find out she thought you were Hot, Cute..etc.

Girls can just be intimidated by you or may not talk to you because while your thinking "Damn, shes so cute but she doesnt seem like she likes me or even looks at me" Meanwhile, She's thinking.. "Hes really cute, why would he even talk to me. I rather not even bother. He wouldnt like me".

Happens Alot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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saber

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This isn't exactly the same but last night hung out with some friends and girl who I know is attracted to me but won't give any good eye contact, convo and kinda stays within the group's dynamics if that makes sense.

I feel kinda stupid for not working harder to isolate her but some girls won't do any of the work!
 

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Every freaking teenage maid I have ever had acts this way. Same goes for just about every teenage waitress at every bar/cafe in Ukraine. As soon as they find out that I am not Caucasian or Tatarian their eyes start to flutter around when they give me my order or my change. The girls are so damn passive though. Building any sort of relationship takes forever.
 
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