You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
i would rather jerk off than use condom.
Don't be dumb. Use a condom and if something becomes a FTW or something more, agree to get tested together. You shouldn't be raw dogging unless you are willing to take the risk of the biggest STD of all time, an unwanted pregnancy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Not sure how many more threads about STDs you're going to post, but you won't get any different replies. Use a condom. Not only do you risk getting an STD yourself, you could spread it to more women which in turn puts other men at a higher risk as well.
then go jerk, or buy a sex doll I heard they are almost like real people now.
Seriously?.... she's "lookin at you" and you have it in your mind (you havent even approached her yet) to wana raw dog her?... annnnnd shes in a relationship? Why would you even step foot in that? Plz ... dont procreate.. ok? ... kaythxbai ... smh
Lmfao you are a mess. You can't be half a gangster. Strap up. If you get raw, you are playing with the fire.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
straping up is half a gangster, a real gangster has 20 nuns lined up and sticking in in and out of each of there holes raw. might try nun game.
I added another cuck to the ignore list.
The hiv is strong in this one. Threads about stds and a sock puppet of some dude's gf. He's Currently making a fap shrine. Hahaha
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I never had one. I’m somewhere around low triple digit lays (100-150 different women). I’ve only ever raw dogged 5 chicks - 4 were LTR and were tested & on birth control. The other I was 23 blacked out drunk she was a cougar and revealed to me early in the night she couldn’t have kids. Ended up being an FWB plate for five months.
I'm going for handjobs. aiming for 3 tonight. Perhaps even three girls at once giving me a handjob. My dik is big enough for 6 hands.
Yes, always get a vag pic. I like to ask for a vag pic with the notarized signature of its last user.