You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Originally posted by Andromax
Hey the old expression goes something like, "its all pink on the inside..."
Seriously though. If you find them attractive, then go for it. I would advise against dating women that you arent attracted to. 1) You dont really learn anything that will help you with the hotties, and 2) it aint nice to the fugly chick to mess with their feelings.
If you cant score with the hotties then lower your standards, or visit russia. (hehehehe)
Or you are gonna be lonely, yes
It's called "settling", and is the mark of a loser.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
'Nuff said....
Dude - lots of gorgeous women. They tend to go for American guys pretty quick, cause they want to come to the states.
I agree that you shouldn't settle for less, but I think you're more likely to have more uphill battles with gorgeous girls than with those that are self-conscious of their mediocre appearances. The hot ones know that the AFC's drool all over them, so they have to weed out the wussies from the men by making it harder for guys to win them over. The average girls (or below average) have to compensate by being extra nice and hoping they could win a guy over with their personality.
I gotta disagree with that, but I see where you are going.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.