"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Finding a Good Wingman(woman)

medmackinhoes

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So the other night I was feeling real ancy and wanted to go out and socialize, maybe meet some beezies in the process. Everything was all well and good and I was prepared for a good productive night out. My only problem however was actually finding someone to come with. None of my usual group were around and so I ended up going solo, wasn't all too bad. That got me to thinking, how do you find a reliable wingperson?? Out of your male friends what criteria would you look for in reliable wing man? Out of your female acquaintances who do you choose to go out with to increase your chances of meeting more women? I mean sometimes I think that a certain dude to hangout with may decrease my chances by either being too weird--deflecting contact or too attention getting. Comments?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wjh

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I don't sarge with women.

I have one, maybe two guys who get where I'm going when I'm approaching.

And, I have other chump male acquaintances who have zero idea of wtf is going on and will be AFC morons till their dying days.

When going out, I try to keep the chumps at bay, and go out with my "knowing" friends more so than the others.

But most of the time, even when I'm out with my good friends, I'll approach by myself, it doesn't matter if it's a 2-3-4 set for me, either.
 

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The best way to find a reliable wing is by going to lair meetings, if theres one by your area, or forums like these. Not all of them will be reliable but you find some good guys that will tag along every weekend. I always want to have a wing that knows all the rules of the game. I dont care if he's good or not.
 

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wjh said:
I don't sarge with women.

I have one, maybe two guys who get where I'm going when I'm approaching.

And, I have other chump male acquaintances who have zero idea of wtf is going on and will be AFC morons till their dying days.

When going out, I try to keep the chumps at bay, and go out with my "knowing" friends more so than the others.

But most of the time, even when I'm out with my good friends, I'll approach by myself, it doesn't matter if it's a 2-3-4 set for me, either.
Wow i wish i was like that... all of my friends are chumps, none of them even want to come with me to approach the girl even after i beg them. So most of the time i end up not doing it either. I even tell them you dont have to say anything ill do all the talking but they still wont do it. I need to find some friends with enough balls so we can feed of each other positive energy, friends i have right now dont even think about approaching a girl when they see a hot girl/s in public.
 

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r0cky said:
The best way to find a reliable wing is by going to lair meetings, if theres one by your area, or forums like these. Not all of them will be reliable but you find some good guys that will tag along every weekend. I always want to have a wing that knows all the rules of the game. I dont care if he's good or not.
Arright, I have no clue what a lair meeting is please do explain. The problem I find is that yeah alot of my male friends tend to be kinda chumps. Either they don't know what to do and are awkward or are too scared to even approach but what about females? I think they offer even better chances. For one they give you access to a whole social network of other women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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