"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Finding a Good Wingman(woman)

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So the other night I was feeling real ancy and wanted to go out and socialize, maybe meet some beezies in the process. Everything was all well and good and I was prepared for a good productive night out. My only problem however was actually finding someone to come with. None of my usual group were around and so I ended up going solo, wasn't all too bad. That got me to thinking, how do you find a reliable wingperson?? Out of your male friends what criteria would you look for in reliable wing man? Out of your female acquaintances who do you choose to go out with to increase your chances of meeting more women? I mean sometimes I think that a certain dude to hangout with may decrease my chances by either being too weird--deflecting contact or too attention getting. Comments?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't sarge with women.

I have one, maybe two guys who get where I'm going when I'm approaching.

And, I have other chump male acquaintances who have zero idea of wtf is going on and will be AFC morons till their dying days.

When going out, I try to keep the chumps at bay, and go out with my "knowing" friends more so than the others.

But most of the time, even when I'm out with my good friends, I'll approach by myself, it doesn't matter if it's a 2-3-4 set for me, either.
 

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The best way to find a reliable wing is by going to lair meetings, if theres one by your area, or forums like these. Not all of them will be reliable but you find some good guys that will tag along every weekend. I always want to have a wing that knows all the rules of the game. I dont care if he's good or not.
 

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wjh said:
I don't sarge with women.

I have one, maybe two guys who get where I'm going when I'm approaching.

And, I have other chump male acquaintances who have zero idea of wtf is going on and will be AFC morons till their dying days.

When going out, I try to keep the chumps at bay, and go out with my "knowing" friends more so than the others.

But most of the time, even when I'm out with my good friends, I'll approach by myself, it doesn't matter if it's a 2-3-4 set for me, either.
Wow i wish i was like that... all of my friends are chumps, none of them even want to come with me to approach the girl even after i beg them. So most of the time i end up not doing it either. I even tell them you dont have to say anything ill do all the talking but they still wont do it. I need to find some friends with enough balls so we can feed of each other positive energy, friends i have right now dont even think about approaching a girl when they see a hot girl/s in public.
 

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r0cky said:
The best way to find a reliable wing is by going to lair meetings, if theres one by your area, or forums like these. Not all of them will be reliable but you find some good guys that will tag along every weekend. I always want to have a wing that knows all the rules of the game. I dont care if he's good or not.
Arright, I have no clue what a lair meeting is please do explain. The problem I find is that yeah alot of my male friends tend to be kinda chumps. Either they don't know what to do and are awkward or are too scared to even approach but what about females? I think they offer even better chances. For one they give you access to a whole social network of other women.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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