thing is I get looks in person or wen I'm out with my bros but I don't have the guts to go and talk to them so I hesitate... I think I do get needy but thats because I don't see the point in matching me and not saying sh1t or talking to me for a couple and then disappearing..wen it keeps happening over and over again ive started to get pissed off and curse them the fck out
You need to work on building up the guts man, it can be done. If you're getting looks then that's good!! All you have to do is look them directly in the eyes and smile while thinking in your head that she's sexy. Practice with women you pass on the streets until they smile back at you, then move on to talking to them.
Go to the gym and get stoked when your muscles get firm. Work on a project and build your confidence in your abilitirs. It's never too late to start. I still ruin dates with women by acting needy every now and then, it's a hard habit to break, but the more you work at it the better you'll get.
Dating apps attract a certain type of woman, and arguably only a minority of women use them. The chicks that go on there have their minds ruined because they can get all the validation they want without ever putting out, I'm sure they have hundreds of guys lined up to take them out on their next date and pay for their next dinner. They are going to end up alone with a bunch of cats because they're going to ride the c0ck carousel until they hit the wall and no one wants them. You, on the other hand, will continue to build value until your mid forties as you become a better man, the more you work on it, the more you will improve.
You need to get off tinder before it ruins YOU. You are not entitled to attention from women, and if you continue with your current attitude no woman will ever want you. Be chill, be happy, smoke a bowl or four. Stop defining yourself by the attentions of women and start valuing yourself. If you get rejected, ghost the ***** and never talk to her again, but drop this cursing out ****. No one ever changed their mind or learned anything because someone was a total **** to them, you included.
If you want some wakeup juice to change your mentality, read The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. She paints women as useless, stupid creatures who have accomplished almost nothing in all of history, and she's a woman. She actually receives death threats to this day for having written it, that's how true what she says is.
