What if the Applebee waitress is some unambitious person that is still there because she wasted her free time partying and smoking with Brayden and Jamal? She could easily just see you as a source for money/weed. You worked hard to get to where you are in life, so you really expect this woman to understand that and submit lol?
A female doctor or lawyer will not be a submissive woman either. Women with business careers vary drastically. Some are non-supervisory role women just going through the motions of a 40 hour work week. These women are better girlfriend prospects than the middle to upper management ambitious female type.
I would rather date a dental hygienist than a dentist for instance. The dental hygienist makes a solid income in the $70,000s. That's enough for her to afford a decent 1 bedroom apartment and a decent car. A white collar guy in his 30s will make more than a dental hygienist. It's not that difficult for a 35 year old male to make $75,000+ with a bachelor's or master's degree and 10-13 years of experience. Some guys in the trades can also make more than dental hygienists too. Dental hygienists don't often have an inflated sense of self because they have a trade degree. It's actually one of the best trade occupations for women and a good career path that doesn't involve a bachelor's degree.
Dental hygienists examine patients for signs of oral diseases, such as gingivitis, and provide preventive care, including oral hygiene.
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At my last cleaning/checkup, the dental hygienist was talking about her boyfriend. She was in a relationship that was less than a year long and she had that New Relationship Energy still going.
A female dentist would make more. Some dentists own or co-own a practice. Those dentists have even more stress whereas some other dentists are merely non-ownership employees in a larger practice. Either female dentist is going to be more of a careerist since they have an advanced degree, but the non-ownership employee dentist would be the better choice.
The waitress at Applebees or Hooters is less likely to have a bachelor's degree, similar to dental hygienist. Whereas the hygienist had enough dedication to complete a challenging professional certification program, the Hooters or Applebee's waitress likely hasn't, or she is currently in undergrad for a social sciences/liberal arts degree or business degree. Some might be smoking weed with Brayden and Jamal. Some might not have seen the point in going to college.
A lot of women who work at Hooters or Twin Peaks make salaries that are competitive with white collar workers, even experienced white collar workers. A 23 year old Twin Peaks waitress/bartender will definitely make more than a 23-27 year old recent college graduate male. Mid-30s guys in business roles finally get to exceed the incomes of a lot of Hooters/Twin Peaks girls.
If you are in some sort of field where your career literally takes up your entire life it is obviously going to have a negative impact on your dating/relationship prospects. A good example of this would be someone who is a doctor, they have the status of having the title and often make well above average income but are also working substantially more than your typical 40 hour wage worker. A woman may be attracted to a man like this because of his status but overtime his lack of availability, both physically and emotionally, will have an impact on their relationship.
In the past, women used to have a thing for male doctors. I haven't heard about this as much recently. A fair amount of male doctors/dentists would fulfill the beta bucks side of her hypergamy, with a few Alpha male type doctors thrown in.
A lot of doctors/business executives are not very available despite their big paychecks.
Some PUAs who live to lift weights and approach women have more notches than male doctors and lawyers.
I feel that flaunting wealth and success can turn a lot of people off, especially if it comes across as try hard or needing of attention. I'd also feel that this is a fantastic way to invite very fake people into your life that you shouldn't want around, whether they be gold digging women or phoney male friends who are looking to somehow benefit from being around you.
There are times when flaunting wealth will help a guy get laid. This was touched upon in one of my threads. However, there are plenty of men owning Rolexes and German luxury brand cars who aren't getting laid as much as one might think they are getting.
Gold digger women would be attracted. A lot of the gold digger type women are attractive. Many have nice breast implants.
https://nypost.com/2013/01/16/meet-the-rolex-romeos/ Rolex is one of the most prestigious brands. To get a Rolex time piece, expect to spend more than $8,000. While there are other watch brands, Rolex is the one most well known. If a man isn't getting laid and is struggling in...
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